http://dancingwithpain.com/there-is-a-psychology-to-natural-pain-relief/ Fri, 27 Jan 2012 14:03:52 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 http://dancingwithpain.com/there-is-a-psychology-to-natural-pain-relief/comment-page-1/#comment-22409 mulderfan Sat, 18 Sep 2010 18:39:56 +0000 http://dancingwithpain.com/there-is-a-psychology-to-natural-pain-relief/#comment-22409 We are programmed by our abuser to shoulder the blame for THEIR actions. Did they pause for even a moment to consider the hurt they inflicted on their victims? I think not! I cannot lose what I never had...loving supportive parents. It is time to let go of the fantasy...grieve it and remember the 1st stage of grief is denial. We are programmed by our abuser to shoulder the blame for THEIR actions. Did they pause for even a moment to consider the hurt they inflicted on their victims? I think not!
I cannot lose what I never had…loving supportive parents. It is time to let go of the fantasy…grieve it and remember the 1st stage of grief is denial.

]]> http://dancingwithpain.com/there-is-a-psychology-to-natural-pain-relief/comment-page-1/#comment-13347 Diana Lee Tue, 16 Feb 2010 03:52:42 +0000 http://dancingwithpain.com/there-is-a-psychology-to-natural-pain-relief/#comment-13347 It has been hard for me to talk openly about the things my parents have done that hurt me (inadvertantly) on my blog since they started reading it. This has been unfortunate because I feel like it's my best outlet for venting those kinds of feelings. But I don't want to hurt them or stir up trouble for no good reason. It's hard to know how to handle this. It has been hard for me to talk openly about the things my parents have done that hurt me (inadvertantly) on my blog since they started reading it. This has been unfortunate because I feel like it’s my best outlet for venting those kinds of feelings. But I don’t want to hurt them or stir up trouble for no good reason. It’s hard to know how to handle this.

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